A precious gift from god

I was thinking of re-creating a new blog, a blog that can show my recent updates via facebook. So close friends are able to access and stay tunned to my latest update. But......then again, i think i shall just continue frm here for the time being.

It's been quite a long time eversince i last blogged, and many things had happened throughout these recent months.
Of course, the least that i'd expected - I got pregnant.

15th May 2011 (Sunday)
The day that i found out i was pregnant. I still rem it was my parent's in law anniversary and the 4 of us were out having dinner at Taka. After dinner, Fatty send me home and he went out to meet his friend.
I don't know wat made me took out that test kit, but i just went ahead and used it.
To my ultimate suprise, the 2nd line came out immediately after the 1st one appeared, and the test line was as dark!
When i saw the results, i couldn't believe my eyes. My first reaction was to tear! Hahahha
I bathed and i started smiling to myself while tearing at the same time. LOL

After settling my emotions, i went downstairs to inform my parents in law, and came back upstairs to call my parents.
Next was Grace and then Fatty. Haha
The conversation with Fatty:

Me: Hello, i got something to tell u
Fatty: Ya?"
Me:" Ur're going to b a dad
Fatty:" Hmm, really? How u know?"
Me:" I just tested positive on the test kit. Just only"
Fatty:" Okayyyyyyy, (he still sounded super in shock) Have u told my parents?"
Me:" Ya, told them already. Ok, dont disturb u liao...come back early"
Fatty: Ok"

And he immediately called his mother to see how was her reaction.

I'm coming 4months now and i really do hope time will past faster. I wana feel the kicks from my baby and soon, she's out and slping in my arms. I can't wait to see Fatty playing with his own kid and taking care of her too.
All the while, we've only been seeing friend's babies. Finally we're blessed with a precious baby girl.
Oh yah, went to the doctor today and he said most prob we're having a girl =)
Exactly what i hoped for. A elder sister to takecare of her younger siblings next time.

Well, during these 4mths of pregnancy, i've been thru ups and downs. All the while, i don't know what do other women say when they mention "hormoes gone hay wire". But after being pregnant, i totally understand lor!!
Many times i just cannot control my emotions, i don't wana cry, but the tears just start to flow automatically.
I start to bcome super sensetive and think alot at the slightest thing.
I keep reminding myself to get a hold of my emotions and not make it worsen.
Fatty might not know how to handle my current state now, coz he's still considered a new dad. I'm also considered a new mother and this is my first pregnancy.
But so far, he's been really nice to be my supper supplier at night and following me to the dr's appointment each time.
Though all these are small gestures, but it really makes me feel good.
But i do hope he'll overcome his so-called fear and start to touch my tummy soon, esp when our daughter starts to kick. I dont want him to miss out anything!

My due date is on the 20th Jan 2012, and i've already arranged for my confinement nanny to help during my confinement.
I pray for a healthy n cute baby girl, a smooth and quick labour and the 1mth confinement to past real FAST!

N of coz, to have a suprise at Fatty's behaviour. I hope to see him putting the effort to bond with his daughter in the future. Coz i feel that this bond is priceless.

Ok, CAN START SHOPPING LIAO!!! I think my mil is gona be super happy upon hearing that im having a girl - she's hoping for a girl. LOL
Both of us can start going out and buying baby clothes liao~

Till then~

First things first-
I love my 2 brothers, and i wana thanks god for having them in my life =)
Though we used to quarrel and fight when we were young, but nevertheless we started to be close as we get older, and now.....so close.
The past week was pretty shitty for me, but the 2 monsters were so nice to drive over Fatty's hse to pick me for coffee and talk cock session.
I think i wana arrange more bonding session with the brothers. Hahaha
Thats y i always tell people, and people always tell me that having a Girl first is always better. Its a girl's instinct to wana protect and takecare of her younger brothers. - Which for my case, i think its damn true.
From time to time, i still worry for them and nag at them on behalf of my mother. LOL

On sat, i was at Grace's place. Saw baby jaelyn and carried her for the 1st time. She's such a smiley girl!
When i carried her, i was worry that she might just cry - coz i'm super inexperienced in carrying babies.
But once i carried her, she kept smiling!
Her smile was fixed on the face and she kept looking at me - smiling.
Wah, that feeling is unexplainable!
If i was carrying my own daughter, im sure the feeling is priceless =)
So i shall wait for that day. Haha

Another 1mth and Grace will be back. I can't help but to keep repeating myself that time passes damn fast.
After this 4mths, i shld be damn sick of plaza sing. Lol
I'm practically there everyday =.=

Ok, shall update again

8th March 2011

It's coming 3mths to my current job, and Grace will be coming back on the 25th of Apr. Time passes so fast!
Thank god everything is going smoothly for me now, and i've not cock up any of her work stuff as yet. *Cross my finger* Hurhur
Of coz there are nice and nasty tenants around Old School. Some tenants really take their own sweet time to pay their monthly rental and every month end, i will be like an Ah Long, calling them and pestering them for $$$. I'm sure i'm hated by some of them now, but it doesn't matter to me. As long as i can get the rental from them, my boss will b beaming with joy! LOL

Met my darlings at ION last night, since Janey was late, Jas and i went ahead with dinner 1st.
Had shabu shabu at this resturant, the food was OKAY only, don't think i will go back 2nd time.

Fatty is leaving for his Shen Zhen trip tml. I'm gona have the whole bed to myself! REJOICE
I must remember to tell him not to wash his slping shirt. If i don't get his smell, i'm gona have sleepless nights. Yes, i'm too addicted to his smell. Hurhur
Well, he's gona b back on Sunday night, and i've already got my wkend planned properly to meet my friends.
Parents in law might be going to KL over the wkends too, so it's HOME ALONE with my maid! Haha

Have been enjoying my freedom together with Fatty, friends who are mothers have been telling me:" Rachel, enjoy ur freedom and do whatever you want now, enjoy to ur fullest....coz when the baby comes, you won't have the time to do so."
I'm listening to them, spending quality time with Fatty and friends for now till we get the good news =)

Last Friday, Fatty and i went to Clark Quay to find Gerald and Debra. They set up a push cart selling iphone casings, and Fatty is their supplier. Haha
B4 we went to find them, both of us were thinking what to have for dinner.
The feeling was sooo nice, both of us hand in hands walking ard clark quay thinking of what to have for dinner. The feeling is like back to the pak toh days.
We would stop by to look at street performances, he'll put his arm ard my shoulder and i will put my hands on his waist. Very nice feeling.

Ok, enough of the above. Haha

I have to mention about this - Dinner at MBS @ Cut
The steak is OOOH LALA! Haven tasted steak so wonderful! I would say much better than Mortons steakhouse.
The service was excellent too! All the waiters, very knowledgable in the varieties of wine selections and food choices. The best part was, all of them were dressed in suit.
We had a long table of 13 pax. Each course was served in an excellent manner. 7 waiters will come out, each holding 2 plates and they will wait behind us till every waiter is ready and they serve the dish at the sametime.
The Steak was excellent! 390g of ribeye. Super juicy and thick~ But i didnt manage to finish my steak, it was TOO BIG!
Friends from Perth enjoyed the dinner too. Apparantly, their standards in food are high, so if they're satisfied with the food, its really good.
The bill came up to be $4,500 for 13 pax.
I'm already missing the beef.

Ok, shall update again
Till then~

Thursday......
Oh, how i wished it was already Friday. Haha
I'm starting to miss my bed dearly!

It's only 320pm and i'm waiting patiently for the time to pass.

Fatty just msn me, jio-ing me to penang. It's a very good idea, coz the 2 of us really miss the glorious food there!
Since both of us are looking at travelling around the month of June, we've decided to ask our parents along together as a family trip. Haha
I think it'll b quite fun! More people can order more food! I bet mum will love the food there also

I wonder whats for dinner later, i just had my lunch 2hrs ago and my mouth is itchy already. Help me!
Thats y office jobs always makes me fat. Hahaha
Eat and sit, then around tea time, get hungry and eat again

I wana buy something to pamper myself soon. But i'm still thinking what shld i get. I'm still thinking of my Cartier watch.
Mayb i shld get it. Ha!

Ok, i need to find something to entertain myself till 6pm. Another 2.5hrs more to go bfore i zooooom off from work

Till then~

I'm Back Baby!

I totally forgot about this little diary here, or should i say i was just being lazy to blog =p

Since i've officially started working and got some free time, i shall start blogging whenever i have the "feeling" to do so. Haha

Its been 1mth since i've worked in Old School. Another 3 more months and Grace will be back with me. We'll still have 1week together for the handing over and then i'm gona start shaking legs again.
Still thinking what should i do, i don't want an office job anymore! No more squeezing with mad people on the morning train!
Seriously speaking, Grace's got a nice job! Nice and chin cai boss who never really comes in office, basically you're all alone in the big office, lunch alone, and keeping yourself occupied till 6pm.

Brief summary of events that happened over 2010...

1) Fatty and i finally got our house - Received a nice que number "34" and ended up choosing the highest level unit, 5 rooms flat at Anchorvale Horizon.

2) Got married - Alot of people have been asking me:" So how's married life?" And i tell them that everythings the same.

Just that 2 of us (Fatty & I) have more responsibilities and duties towards each other.
Can see he's a changed guy, or should i say everyone around him have seen the difference.
More caring, will think of me 1st, will ask my opinion regarding matters, share with me his daily activities, and seriously i love the communication between the 2 of us.

3) Ok, can't really remember liao

Attended Father in law's 61st Bday dinner at Tong Lok last night. I thought everyone could go home and rest for the night after dinner, but end up his friend wanted to go for part 2. So all of us headed down to the bar nearby and had a few rounds of champagn and white wine. I swear i was falling asleep on the chair. Can u imagine already being so sleepy and tired, plus drinking rounds of alcohol?
I was LAGI sleepy and tired.
12.30pm and i couldn't tahan anymore, i told Fatty that i needed to go home and sleep. He send me home, and came back to pick his parents.

Told him that i'll take a cab home, since its pretty stupid to send me home and come back to East coast to pick his parents.
He said:" NO la, i send u home, so late already....later i just come back and fetch them, very near only"
So nice of him~

It's finally friday and i' m looking forward to the end of the day! I wana go back home and take a cat nap!
I wana go last min cny shopping with Fatty too!

Sms-ed my boss yesterday to let him know i've gota take leave on the 1st Feb (Tues) coz of reunion dinner (at my house). After getting married, theres some adjustments to be made. No more reunion dinner on chu xi at my hse liao. I gota spend my chu xi at Fatty's Grandpa's House.
Ok, boss called and said:" Oh, you don't have to take leave on tues, i'm intending to close office."
WAH, happy leh!
After hanging up the phone, i suddenly had a thought. I've got a feeling he's thinking that Tues is chu xi, and therefore i needed to take leave.
Grace told me that usually its half day on chu xi.
I called him back and said:" Just incase you got the dates wrong, i gota take half day on tues (which is 1 day before chu xi). Its not on chu xi itself"

Then he said:" No problem....i'll just shut the office on tues, so dun need to take leave."
Very nice and chin cai of him right! =D
Hopefully he'll mean what he says, which i think he does lah

Ok, can't wait for cny too! It's jsut nex wk!
I wana have my reunion dinner and meetup with my cousins!!

Till then

Hello blog,
Yr owner is back for a quick updated post =)

Close to 3 weeks has past since the wedding, and WOW time passes damn fast!
Friends ask me:" So how's married life?"
My answer to them:" Ok la, still the same."
Perhapes i've been already staying over at Fatty's hse since 1yr+ before our wedding, and therefore i'm already used to living there.
My lifestyle is still the same, just that now i'm already someone's daughter-in-law and i gota be more "auto" in somethings. =)

The wedding was a big success! thanks to my both side familes, my friends and the gang of brothers & sisters!
Each individual has helped Fatty and i in some way or another and both of us are truly grateful
Fatty's performance on the actual day was good also!
He went thru the gate crashing with anticipation and enthusiasm =)
I'm proud of him!

The whole event was damn tiring, i really had no time to think bout other things.
The only things i could do was to look pretty and keep smiling from morning till night
Only time i could really rest was when my makeup artist was putting the makeup for me before the banquet.

Now stage 1 (marriage) of our life is over, both of us are looking forward for stage 2 =)
Hopefully we'll have some good news soon =p

Oh! We're going shanghai on the 16th of oct! Yay!
His dad will be going over to Dalian few days earlier for new business prospect, and Fatty, my mother in law, me and some of her female friends will be going over to shanghai first before his dad & friends come over to meet us.
On the 27th we'll be going to Genting with Fatty's friends and then down to Muar on the 29th to attend his cousin's wedding =)

Ok
End of my short updates
Haha

Till then

It's just another 10 days to our BIG day!
Suddenly the time passes so damn fast and i really can't believe it.
I was just feeling quite bored from all the preparations months back, and now all the preparation will be all set and ready for nex friday - 10 sep 2010

I'm starting to feel excited and looking forward to nex friday. In my heart, i keep thinking how will that day be? How will i look in my gown? Whats the feeling like when Fatty & i are gona be the main leads? Hows the feeling like when we say our vows and walk down the aisle infront of 460 guest?
How will i feel during the night before my wedding? Will i be able to sleep? Haha
Will i find it wierd to start calling his parents "ma & pa?"
How will it sound when Fatty calls my parents "ma & pa?"
HAHAHAHA

I guess Fatty and i will be very blessed with all the well wishes from our friends, familes and relatives =)
I hope mum won't tear during the day lah, she better not!
Coz both of us cry damn easily, tears just flow down freely. Haha

This coming thurs will be our final fitting for Fatty and i at the bridal boutique.
Jas and Jane will be coming along too coz their brides maid dress are also ready for final fitting

Next Wed (2 days before the big day) Fatty and i will need to head down to the registry of marriage to settle some paper stuff and we will be heading down to the bridal boutique to collect our gowns and his suit.

Jon just showed me my video montage! I'm sooo happy with it! He never fails to suprise me! He did a great work for Grace's wedding montage, and now he has done such a great job for mine! =)

Fatty suprised me with a Prada key pouch =)
He got sean & mel to get me a key pouch from london. I didn't even know till i over heard the conversation about him getting sean to get something from london few days back.
I casually ask what he's intending to get from london.
He replied me:" Key pouch for u lor..."
Then i was stunned for the moment and i asked:" key pouch? how come u suddenly buy key pouch for me?"
Fatty:" I remember u told me that u needed a key pouch for your keys mah, so i told sean to get it for u"
I kept quiet and thought bout wat fatty said and i realised that i did really told him few months back that i needed a proper key pouch.
Great, he remembered. =)

I can feel the difference in him, those things that he hates talking about last time (about babies, marriage etc). All these are now part of his conversations with me, infront of our familes and friends
We made the right choice by taking a further step into the relationship by getting married.
In the begining, i was quite worried and kept wondering if both of us were ready for it.
Now im sure, we're ready.